Back when I was a virgin, I figured that I would wait for marriage to have sex. That dissolved when I found that I was pushing girls away with lines like "I'm waiting for marriage to have sex" and the tired old "let's just be friends" to girls that wanted my cock and balls.
After years of racking up lays with numerous girls, I realize that I did not really have a quality control standard. I thought lots of sex with many women was the thing for me. Now that I am drug-free though, I think I am much more picky with the girls I sleep with. I recently tested negative for STDs at the hospital and now that I am 31, I think my standards are a lot more based on quality. Eventually, I would like to find a great gal and settle down, get married, and raise a couple kids.
As of this writing, I have not been laid since about July/August. The last girl I dated turned out to be a lush/drunk, so I broke up with her. Now, one of my main goals is to find a girl or 2 that do not participate in the standard ("normy") program of going out to the bars/clubs and getting shitfaced just to have sloppy meaningless sex. Quality and quantity are not the same. I want a girl that does not drink/drug. My girls should be drug/disease-free. This reflects my own personal standards. I choose not to partake in drugs and I need/want a girl with the same high standards. I know girls like this are out there. I think I will use day game as a tool in my toolkit and stick to ballroom dancing if I decide to meet girls at night.
-Chicoman
